Position:Wedding Etiquette

Marry the process is all of gift gift borrow see

From;    Author:Stand originally

Bridal, no matter be in at all times and in all over the world, be considered as the great gift in life gift gift. But know a Gu Jin to its big different.

The ancients thinks, familial the continuance with blood relationship, it is to do junior to not allow the important task of shirk, namely alleged " disobedient have 3, after notting have, be big " , accordingly, the ceremony the yin and yang of sex men and women, marriage that produces male offspring is put in a very significant position.

Wedding and marital system have close tie, reflected the civilized Jiaohua rate of people from a flank. Each people of the ancestor of the Chinese nation that gives priority to body with the Han nationality and world is same, the level of random marriage, group marriage has been experienced in original period, after entering civilized society take one husband basically one wife marital form.

First bridal form about only then at primitive society evening, from according to legend only then of Yu Fuxi times be engaged " with couple skin (didymous deerskin) for the ceremony " gradually gradual progress, to Xia Shang when " greet in person at hall " , what have to Zhou Dai again complete " 6 ceremonies " , preliminary already the foundation that laid our country traditional wedding. Experience acting development again, make various marriage formal section more hasten overelaborate, enthusiastic.

Shew and character, bridal large reduction of a fraction is our country tradition the ceremony before marriage, the ceremony after bridal, marriage 3 phase.

The ceremony before marriage is plan in marriage, the part of a few appearance that preparative phase place holds.

First Qin Shi, include accept to collect, ask name, accept auspicious, accept is asked for, please period 5 kinds (add when wedding greet in person, namely so called " 6 ceremonies " ) , offspring evolves gradually again piece urge makeup, send makeup, the instrument division such as shop room.

In archaic feudal society, marriage depends on " parental life, the character of intermediary Shuo " , accordingly, all instrument divisions of the ceremony before marriage, include to reach those who prepare formal wedding occasionally from choose a series of link, monopolize by the parent of parental both sides almost, the party of true marriage is eliminated instead outer.

Compare a woman because of the man's social class again exalted, accordingly, propose to also be with the man more active. Man parent wants to make for son get married get married, ask intermediary to make talk about a marriage to the bride's side first (say " make known to lower levels " ) , if the bride's side accepted this marriage, begin to undertake accept is collected, ask a series of appearance such as the name the red-letter day.

Accept collects: It is the first pace that male orientation woman proposes formally.

Undertake in bilateral agreement " accept is collected " a day this of the ceremony, the intermediary that the bridegroom's or husband's family expedites makes the hand holds a vivid wild goose in both hands to regard as gift presented to a senior at one's first visit as a mark of esteem see a gift (serve as ceremony gifting presented to a senior at one's first visit as a mark of esteem with vivid wild goose at first, take wild goose to be migrant namely, qiu Nafei and spring north returns, will go sometimes, from without break one's promise will be abided by as both sides of male and female not of change indicative; Take wild goose to fly again embark on a journey, stop to list,
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